Knowing how to get a guy back might be a little overwhelming for you right now. Knowing how to get a guy back sometimes takes getting the advice from someone else with a bit of a different perspective. Often, having someone that is not emotionally involved can help your chances of getting your ex back and help you make sense of what works and what doesn’t when it comes to how to get a guy back.

I do hope that you look to me at this moment in time as that impartial friend for the moment that can help you understand what is going to work and what isn’t when it comes to getting back together with your ex. Here is some good basic information that is rooted in fact that can and will help you to get that second chance with your man. So, if you are serious about understanding what it takes to get a guy back then you are in the right place.

While you might struggle with this part of what I have to share with you, the first thing that I want you to do is to break off contact with your ex for a while. Even though you might feel that you need to talk to him often or assure him that you are waiting for him, breaking off contact with him for a while is the best thing to do at the moment. Take a step back and give him some time and space to allow things to settle down a little bit. Sometimes when what you are doing isn’t working then the best thing to do is absolutely nothing. I know that it is going to be tough but this is a really important part of getting your man back if what you have been doing isn’t working.

Sure, you might worry that he is going to forget about you or that he will think that you have given up on him but what you may not realize is that there is a very good chance that you are doing all the wrong things when it comes to actually how to get a guy back instead of the right things. You might actually be pushing him away or even into the arms of another woman instead of creating the desire, love and attraction that is necessary to get him back.

The next step in getting your man back really is the best part. Well, the best part just after actually getting him back but this part really can be a lot of fun. It is time to focus on yourself and doing things that are going to boost your self esteem and make you happy. After your breakup your self esteem is probably pretty much shot. The rejection puts you at a great disadvantage and now it is time to get you back. It is time to regain your self confidence and start living your life again for you. Even though you might not really be able to tell at the moment, your lack of confidence in yourself can probably be seen in how you carry yourself and even in how you speak these days. So, it is time to rebuild your life and you as quickly as possible!

It is time to push the rejection out of your mind for a while and have some fun. Be around people that adore you and make you feel good about yourself. It is time to do anything and everything to make you feel good about being you! Anything that can make you laugh can have a healing affect upon your heart and heighten your mood, in general. Shopping is always good for making you feel good about yourself, but don’t overdo it! When you feel good about yourself you will attract people to you, including your ex. If you are down and depressed, people will tend to shy away from you and that especially holds true for your ex at this time.

The final step in getting your ex back is to begin to attract him again. The unbeatable duo of being happy and feeling good about yourself and beginning to do the things that attracted your man to you in the first place, plus a little playfulness, can be an unbeatable combination to bring that man back around to at least check out what he is missing. Often, the combination of some time and your new attitude is enough to bring him around while other times you might have to go a little black ops on him but be sure that you are really ready before making contact with him again.

Even though it is hard to tell you exactly what to say when that day does come or what to do to attract his attention again, the easiest thing to do is to allow him to be drawn to you again. Once he sees that you are back to living your life again and he remembers how much fun you were to be with then he will want to check out what he has been missing. Again, breaking off contact with him until you are at that point might be difficult but it is worth it in the long run if you really want to get him back once and for all.

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