According to the Law of Attraction, whatever we set our mind on, whether it is positive or negative, we can achieve that goal. Does this same concept apply to people when it comes to love? Can we get a specific person to love us?

Our realities and destiny is within our control but we don’t have control over someone Else’s. If two people are not on the same page about something, let alone reading the same book, it’s not going to work.

For example, say you like a girl at the college you attend; but she clearly does not feel the same way. Or, she does feel the same way but you two just can’t get connected for one reason or the other.

If you two were on the same thought patterns, there wouldn’t be any problem getting together. It shouldn’t be an issue getting together with someone if they are a perfect match for you.

In this all-too common example, this girl is not your ideal match. If the universe can’t get you two connected, you don’t have a snowball’s chance in H-E double hockey sticks.

But hold on keep on reading, all is not lost. The universe may not be able to make someone love you but it can tell you what kind of vibrational energy you are putting out in the world.

Whatever beliefs you have, so will the universe. For example, you really like this certain female and she seems to like you but your vibrational wires keep getting crossed.

It is often that we are not clear to the universe what we want. Our vibrational energy is not being seen clearly by the universe. So, the universe will often send females that might be right for you. “Is she the right one?” Or “What about her right here?” “What about this one?”

And you would respond to the universe by saying,”I like her but she is not feminine enough.” Or you would say something like,”I really like her over there but I prefer a woman with larger breasts.”

Although this girl isn’t the perfect match for you, she’s a good indicator of what your vibrational match is. So, if she’s a great gal, your vibrational energy must be great as well. The type of women you attract mirror the type of person you are.

So what happens next? I have outlined a few guidelines:

I know it’s hard, but you must accept that the girl you want, isn’t meant to be. Your mind must remain open to the fact that she is only the beginning to who you will be a perfect match for.

Ask yourself this question, “Why are you attracted to her?” What is it exactly you like about her? Concentrate on those specific traits you like about her. And the Universe will get a clearer picture of what you are looking for.

To be honest, you don’t have a clue what this girl is all about. So in essence, you haven’t a clue if you really could have a successful relationship with her. The universe knows all about it because it sees the entire picture where you only see a snapshot.

If getting together with this girl is as difficult as charming a dog off of a meat wagon, this is a warning sign that this relationship is not meant to be. Don’t be frustrated about this. Let the universe handle everything.

Stop obsessing about this girl and being single. You should find something fun to do that makes you a happy chappy! If you focus on how lonely you are, you will find yourself in situations that make you lonely.

Put this piece of advice into action right now, concentrate on what you love about your life instead of what you hate about it.

Tomorrow might be the day you find the girl you have been waiting for. What it really boils down to is this, do you really want to spend your time with someone who is all wrong for you? In a year or two, you might end up hating each other.

So, now you might be wondering, “What if my perfect match never comes?” Isn’t having an imperfect something better than having nothing at all? I understand what you are going through. I’ve been there myself. The fear of being alone forever is scary.

We see it all the time in commercials. We hear it in the conversations of our family and friends; and the media is cramming it down our throats of how important it is to find a mate.

We are taught at an early age that when we become adults, we should find someone and get married. If we don’t, we will not be complete. This is especially hammered home to women. If they don’t get married before they are thirty, they will be labeled an old maid or a spinster. Who wants those kind of labels?

To be honest with you, true love and attractive youthfulness have nothing to do with one another. If this were true, only young people would find love and older people would never experience it.

Your better half is waiting for you too. Whatever emotional energy that you are putting in the universe is the same type of energy your perfect mate is giving off. If you are dysfunctional, she will be also. If you are kind and gentle, she will be too.

Love should find you, you shouldn’t be searching for it. Until the right woman comes along, you should do two things, love yourself first, and second, you need to know who you are as a person. This will make a more successful relationship when she does come walking through that door.

Meanwhile, pay close attention to what you really admire about the women who are already in your life. Don’t let the fear of being alone force you to settle for less than what you want. You should enjoy the single life because there is nothing wrong with being single.

When being single no longer bothers you and you are OK with being alone with yourself, the universe will hone in on this positive vibration and see a more clearer picture of you.

With all of that positive energy you are sending out into the universe, The universe itself will send you the perfect mate. And you will soon notice that she is your perfect vibrational match.

Whether you are looking for that perfect someone, getting your ex back, or into bed, the can help you. The Law of Attraction says you can achieve whatever you want to achieve good or bad, you just have to know how to do it.

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